As a feminist the word choice is a loaded one, with many meansings consequences and the ability to incite my ire.
Everyday I have a choice to make: Am I going to enjoy my day? take advantage of what life has to offer me? Or am I going be sad that I'm a little different than I was before the stroke. Everyday I choose the former, I do sometimes catch myself fading into the latter option, but I catch myself pretty quickly and as a result, I believe I am enjoying my life much more than I did.
So, what are you going to choose for yourself today?